it’s not your job to entertain him by sending him nudes

it’s not your job to satisfy him sexually because he’s horny

you are not required to do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable or that you don’t want to do

don’t be scared of “loosing him”

he most likely wasn’t anything worth keeping

Girls need to be taught this from such an early age.

a boner is not a medical condition. you are under no obligation to do anything.


In case you need some advice or motivation tonight:


One of the very best guys I know, one of my best friends and one of the most important people in my life gave me some amazing advice about my current situation and I have to share because it is amazing and I love it:

"Don’t let it ruin your night. A crazy meerkat once told me: leave the past behind you. And a smelly pig once told me: Hakuna Matata."